General
It may be impolite for an outsider to remark on Australia's history as a penal colony. The vast majority immigrants to Australia have been free immigrants.
Compared to many people from the UK and US, Australians may be more casual
in various social situations. Those who resist this attitude may be viewed as snobbish[citation needed].
Although viewed as a homogeneous society (70% Anglo-Celtic of predominantly
English/Anglo-British origin)[9], there is more acknowledgement of the country's
growing ethnic/racial diversity.
Making jokes at another's expense or "taking the piss" is common
in Australian society and is often a bonding process. However, it is frowned
upon and considered cowardly to make jokes in the absence of the subject.
Contrary to many other countries, Australians will generally wait until the
subject is present before making derogatory jokes. For example, when an
Australian meets a New Zealander on holiday, they may ask if they brought
velcro gloves in order to get a better grip on those Australian sheep.[10]
Language
In informal situations some language that might be considered foul or
offensive in other cultures may be used to convey different things. However it
is considered rude and offensive to behave in this manner in front of children
and women especially in rural areas.
"Indigenous Australian"
and "Aboriginal/Aborigine" are polite terms, also regional/state
preferences such as "Koori" are also acceptable as long the person in
question and you both consider each other friends. Aboriginal/Aborigine refers
to Indigenous people from the mainland, the Torres Strait Islanders are a
separate group with their own cultural traditions. "Abo",
"Coon", "Gin" and "Boong" or "Boonga" are
all considered offensive and unacceptable in formal conversation when
describing Aborigines but are often used in casual conversations even when one
of the participants is of Indigenous descent, though this is often frowned
upon. "Aboriginal" is now used only as an adjective, although older
documents may still use it as a noun (eg, "Aboriginals"). Note that
the words "Coon" and "Gin" are not always considered
offensive in other contexts - the former being a popular brand of cheese and
the latter a common drink. The politest option is to simply avoid the issue of
race.
State/ regional preferences for specific names for groups of Indigenous
Australians have also arisen in recent years: The term Koori (or
Koorie) in New South Wales or Victoria. Those fromQueensland use the term Murri (pronounced the same as "Murray"). Nunga is
used in most of South Australia. Noongar is used in southern Western Australia. Anangu is
used in northern South Australia, and neighbouring parts of Western Australia
and the Northern Territory. Palawah is used in Tasmania. However, there were over 200 different languages at
the time of European settlement, which means these terms are very specific.
Tipping
Tipping is not usually expected and some employees may
not understand the gesture. Some employees are forbidden from accepting
gratuities (this is mainly in positions of authority e.g. in a casino one
cannot tip the dealer or a security guard; however, this would not apply in a
formal restaurant situation) and tipping face-to-face can create an awkward
situation. However, it is appropriate to add a tip to restaurant bills if the
service has been especially good. It is also acceptable to suggest that taxi
drivers or waiters "keep the change", especially if the difference is
small. Tips may be as large or as small as you feel appropriate. Where tip jars
are provided, they are mostly used for loose change or coins.
Ethnic issues
Although those of Middle Eastern, Italian, Slavic or Greek descent may make
flippant use of terms such as 'Leb' or wog (as
in recent film "The Wog Boy"), as well on television
comedies Acropolisand Kingswood Country) others should be wary of using
what might still be received as a serious ethnic slur. The alternative term
"New Australian" is becoming ridiculed, and never was the preferred
term among ethnic groups. It may be used with permission between very good
friends of differing ethnic backgrounds but is considered to be offensive term
to use towards any other person or in a formal setting.
Indigenous Australians
Amongst Indigenous Australians, it can be taboo to refer to deceased
Indigenous Australians by name, or through use of images.[11] Individuals with the same names are then
expected to change their name, as not to use the name of the deceased.
Within some Indigenous Australian cultures, it is considered taboo for
mother-in-law and son-in-law to interact on any level, this includes being
within the same building or room at any time.
In some cases, within Indigenous Australian cultures, it is considered rude
or threatening to look another individual in the eye when interacting.
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